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writes:I just told my boyfriend of several years that I'm likely a lesbian. He is a great guy, honestly. He seemed to take it well - we broke it off but agreed to be friends. I still feel really guilty for doing it. I mean, I still love him as a person. I'm just not interested in having sex with him or marrying him. And I don't even know if I really am lesbian; the most I've ever done with other women is kissing, yet all I ever think about having sex with is other women.He is the first person that I told. No one else knows; which gives me the other issue of how to explain the break up without saying that I'm gay?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 July 2012):
 You don't need to go into details. If anyone press you for more info just say you weren't compatible, which is the truth.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 July 2012):
 You don't have to explain why you broke up with him. Just say your hearts were going in other directions. If your friends or family press you, just tell them that you wanted to date other people and that you both weren't feeling the chemistry with each other, but the breakup was amicable.
That's telling the truth.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Just shrug and say it didn't work out. The spark was gone. It wasn't there. No chemistry. Or that you just woke up one day and wanted a change.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Just say you were incompatible. It's a private matter, no one has to get specifics. If they are being really nosy, you can just say "oh just the little things started to get to me and we were always bickering. We just decided we would be better off as friends. There was no one specific thing."
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