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writes:Dear agony aunts Since last December I have been seeing a man that I had feelings for the thing is he is not from the same culture as I am and we have absolutely different ways of living and expectations. Just yesterday he told me he is falling in love with me. I did not know how to respond to that despite the fact that I truly love him but I don't want to hurt him or feel that I will not be enough for him because there are things I will not offer to him that he will be expecting. I'm very confused and don't know what to do, I'm seeing him tomorrow. What do I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 April 2017):
 You need to talk to him about your culture and what he CAN expect from you. The only way to move forward is by being honest with him and telling him the TRUTH.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (25 March 2017):
 I think you need to explain how different things are in your culture. If he is the right man he will understand and, to win you, will follow any formalities you prescribe.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (25 March 2017):
 Communicate. he has opened up to you , now it is time for you to explain your requirements.
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