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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy 4 years ago..we had some mutual friends and we joined same tuitions so we became friends. I started loving him. he is very understanding. We used to not talk a lot. After 2 yrs i came to another city and joined a new school, even he came to this city and is in same school with me.Now we talk a lot. Whenever i call him we talk at least for 5 hrs.he shares a lot of personal things with me which he has not shared with any one. he doesnt talk to a single girl other than me. He never calls me first,its always me who calls him..if d phone gets disconnected in middle,he always calls back..if i said him dat i hav low balance he is ready to call me but he doesnt calls on his own,i hav to call him first. He is not a shy. We both have a great time talking with each other. He once said me,,he is not ready to make a girl friend.. its ok for me to be his just friend and not girl friendBut if he considers me as a close frnd den why doesnt he call me if dont call him??..What should i do??..should i stop calling him?? i dont want to lose him as a friend but i dont want only me to be a true frnd...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for ur response...
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 Trying to pursue something more than friendship when you start off as friends can be tricky. And if the feelings are not mutual, it could potentially ruin a friendship.
If he has already mentioned to you that he's not ready for a girlfriend, and just want you to be his friend, then just leave it at that. Continue to build your friendship with him.
In regards to you calling him all of the time...ask him why. It's clear that he doesn't mind talking to you if you two stay on the phone for hours on end. So just communicate with him, and tell him that you would like for him to contact you sometimes.
Hope this helps! :^)
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