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How do I engineer things so he will like me instead?

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Question - (2 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I realy like this guy but no one knows. i want him to know but he likes one of my best friends (his ex) and i dont know if i should tell him. i know that my friend wouldn't care if i liked him because she has dated almost all of my friends ex's (she's a pretty bad friend).

so what i'm asking is how do i make him like me instead of her and how do i let him know that i like him??????

PLEASE HELP ME! (^-^)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

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out of all the words they could have used they picked engineer? well anyway what if he gets over her by himself? there is an extreamly low chance of that, but if he does can i let him know that i like him? and if your going to say how will you know for sure, trust me i have known him for a long time. the day i can say her name and not see pain in his eyes will probably be the day he dosen't like her anymore. i know that it will take him a while to get over her because that was his first real gf and i respect that but to tell you the truth she treated him like crap. the only reason she ever even dated him was to get her ex jelous. even if i don't tell him i like him can i help him get over her and help him find someone who actually cares about him? i would do anything for him and i just want to see him happy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

The word you're looking for is MANIPULATE... don't become a "manipulative bitch"... not a good way to go through life.

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A female reader, 2Dumb2notice United States +, writes (2 April 2011):

en·gi·neer (nj-nîr)

n.

1. One who is trained or professionally engaged in a branch of engineering.

2. One who operates an engine.

3. One who skillfully or shrewdly manages an enterprise.

tr.v. en·gi·neered, en·gi·neer·ing, en·gi·neers

1. To plan, construct, or manage as an engineer.

2. To alter or produce by methods of genetic engineering: "Researchers . . . compared insulin manufactured by bacteria genetically engineered with recombinant DNA techniques to the commercial insulin obtained from swine or cattle" (Fusion).

3. To plan, manage, and put through by skillful acts or contrivance; maneuver.

interesting choice of words, well babygirl, you are not doing right if you go along with liking someone who obvisous likes someone else you know personally because of all the issue that will always remain remember he is into your friend right? so that means that if he does get with you and she just happens to be with you he will constantly be checking her out right? in front of you!! don't do it! ain't worth the hard work...better to just go with someone else your friends don't know and since she is "hoochie" style don't ever bring your new guy around the likes of her....

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