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How do I drag him away from his computer and into my bed?

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Question - (29 October 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ictoriaK writes:

I've been seeing this guy for a while now, and it seems that he never wants to have sex. It seems like he's much more interested in his computer games. Any suggestions as to how I could get him more in the mood?? Like what are some things I could do or say?

Thanks,

Victoria~

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A female reader, beebee305 United States +, writes (31 October 2008):

AWESOME!!!!!! SO HAPPPY TO HEAR THAT!

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A female reader, VictoriaK United States +, writes (30 October 2008):

VictoriaK is verified as being by the original poster of the question

VictoriaK agony auntWell, I showed him this post, and what do ya know! 1/2 an hour later, we were in bed, I guess he finally realizes that his games aren't as important as our sex life.

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A female reader, anonymous1776 United States +, writes (30 October 2008):

two words... Sexy Lingerie

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008):

Put the computer in the bed.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008):

Dear Poster

I suggest you talk to him; explain to him how you feel.

You can also try and get his attention by putting some music on and start doing a strip show; He will not be able to focus on the PC for long. SO, dance, strip and seduce him!

Enjoy, have fun and keep smiling.

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A female reader, VictoriaK United States +, writes (29 October 2008):

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VictoriaK agony auntI've told him before, and I'm always asking him to get off the computer, but he just doesnt listen.

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A female reader, beebee305 United States +, writes (29 October 2008):

I am a widow of World of Warcraft and am going through the same thing with my fiance that you are now. I feel like any time we have a free second it is spent looking and the back of his stupid head while he is on the copmuter. What worked for me was that I went right out and inall couldn't stand it anymore and had it out with him. What I felt was what is important behind tat screen what are you getting from the game that you cannot get from me. Let him know how it is effecting your selfe steem and your sex life. Once you tell him this and let him know you are bored he will be dragging you to the bedroom to prove you wrong! And if he doesn't he is just and uber nerd and you need to drop him for someone else who is a little less juvenielle.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008):

Er.... lemme think....err... how about if you take a really saucy picture of yourself and set it up on his computer as his desktop wallpaper?

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