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writes:I have been given two tickets to see a band in a few weeks and I invited my best friend to have the other one. However now I am having doubts because she has been really nasty to me this week, to the extent of hitting me in the eye. Therefore I am thinking it may not be a very good idea for me to bring her with me if she is going to act in such a way. Unfortunatly, I have no idea how to suggest I dont want her to come anymore, and im afraid it will mess her up because shes having a hard time at home. But really all i want to do is go with the guy I like, who is actually nice to me...help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, In the end I went to tell my friend she couldnt come to the gig, and then she rang me to say she couldnt come-for no reason.
We are no longer real friends to be honest.
I decided not to invite the guy as well, but instead just had a girls night out-it was amazing!
so thanks.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (14 February 2008):
 i agree with phil.
Tell her if she continues to be a bitch she might aswell not come.
And tell the guy that a ticket mite open up but no promises
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): Just tell her that because she's been a bitch to you, you no longer want her to come with you and you're going to go with someone else who appreciates you more instead.
let her stew in her own juice. She's hardly a 'best friend' if she does that sort of thing! You don't need friends like her, that's for sure. Ask the guy ASAP just in case he plans to do something else on that day before you offer him the chance of going with you.
Phil
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