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writes: im a student and i live with a group of students including and the girl im in love with and her ex.the girl knows how i feel about her, and she has told me that she also has feelings for me- we are very very close.at the moment im doing exams, and the girl i like just finished her exams, she got very very stressed during this period, and i helped her through in a big way- puting a lot of time and effort and support- i was the person she came too, and was very appreciativeher ex also supported her a bit- not emotionally like i did, but with lots of cuddles and hugs.at the time i said i didn't need support during exams and that i was best dealing with things like that by myself, but in the last few days since she finished her exams and i still have mine her and her ex are now spending lots of time together and im feeling neglected, and isolated and jelous, like i need a bit of supportand now im pushing her away when she checks how im doing, because i have too much pride to ask for help- especially as i said i didn't need it before- this is causeing her and her ex to spend more and more time together.am i being stupid pushing her away, although it hurts less this way, or should i swallow my pride and go to her for help? its affecting my concentration on my exams- whats the best way to deal with jelousy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2006): I think you should have a little chat with her and find out if there if she still has feelings for her ex. Make some time for just the 2 of you away from him. Tell her how you feel about her and that you need help with your exams. Women love a man in need! But not to needy! It's hard finding the balance with momen and we are very difficult at times!
Being there for her is good as women love a man that can look after her. The reason you push her away is because you don't want to get hurt, which is understandable. But if you want her go get her, else you'll regret it the rest of your life. And don't forget he is her ex for a reason! Good luck! xLx
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