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writes:Hi. I am the person who needed help on the topic (Slept round my girlfriend's house and he broke up with me coz he didn't believe me! What should I do?). I tried calling my boyfriend this morning and by accident he pressed the button on his mobile phone and didnt realise he pressed it. I heard him with a girl in his car laughing and joking in a more serious friendship. My heart is broken i am at work now trying to deal with the fact my boyfriend is cheating on me. He told me it was the person who he was giving the drugs to was his girlfriend. I dont believe this for a minute! I think he slept with her last nite and he is now dropping her home. He always sleeps till 3pm in the afternoon so i know this is not right. I love him my 1st love he has let me down and taken advantage of me. What shall i do. I am begging for someone to help me. Please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): Hi everyone, thankyou so much for your comments. I went to his house that day to talk about things and i asked him if he was doing anything he said no. I did not break up with him but i told him if he is to tell me. I dont have mug written on my forehead. I told him if u want to be with someone else fine but i have given you everything and if your not happy then go. He told me he was happy. But he knows what i would do if i ever caught him cheating. lets say his precious car will be gone and so will his manhood. Thankyou for your comments they have really helped me.Thankyou xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): Just wanted to see how things have turned out. It has been a couple of days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): hi babe, it going to hurt like hell as you aready know. to brake away from any relationship is hard, however if you feel he has cheated dont go back to him, use it as your way out. if not he will have other relationships right under your nose. xxx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Life is full of disappointments, but there can be good times too! You just have to put this one down to experience and walk away. It is normal to feel heart broken in the circumstances you describe but the next step is to hold your shoulders high and walk away from someone who is clearly not worthy of your attention. Plenty of guys out there who will treat you better! I sometimes think it is a good thing when you experience bad relationships (although it doesnt feel that way at the time). It gives you an opportunity to reflect on what you really want out of life, accept you are not going to settle for second best and really treasure Mr Right when he comes along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): I knw its hard when u love a guy but this guy obviouslt dosent respect u or he wouldnt have done this he dosent trust u. The only thing u can do is try and move on. In time the pain will eventually go and youll have learned how to deal with men like him. Believe me (keep urself busy with ur gfs, cry a little and have a great big pigout with jelly and ice cream)
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hi ya 1stly you really do need to make sure your right bout this that he has cheated and that your not just jumping to conclusions. Have a good chat with him im sure the truth will come out. if he ses no and sticks to it then i suppose its all bout trust weather you trust his answer then if you think that in time you can forgive and forget and try working at it then its worth another shot people make mistakes ive just recently done it to my bf i told him tho and hes forgiven me n were workin thru it so it is possible good luck huni x
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reader, 2dangconfused  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 sweetheart, let him go. I know what first love is like.
It is so damn hard at first and you wont probably wont stop thinking about him for a long time, but if you guys have only just broken up & he is with some other chick already, he is not worth your worries. & if he doesnt believe that you stayed @ a girlfriends place when you did, he has no trust in u or respect for you.
I broke up with my 1st love 18months ago and am still thinking about him everyday. it will be so tough at first but you will learn to control your emotions for him.
The best advice anyone ever gave was "there r plenty more fish in the sea". and i know that sounds like complete crap, but soon, you will meet someone who respects you and loves u 4 u..
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