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writes: I'm 19 and at Uni. I've got a boyfriend who i'm crazy about! We've been together for 2 months, and seen each other solidly cause we're both at uni together and spend as much time as possible together. Now he's gone home for 2 weeks to spend Christmas with his family, I'm spending Christmas with my family in France on holiday, and he's spending Christmas with his family up north, where he lives. I'm seeing him again on December 30th in time for New Years, but I'm going to miss him so much for these next 2 and a bit weeks, and I dont know how to deal with missing him!I want to spend Christmas wtih him not my family, I'm not that close to them and never really have felt part of my family. I really miss him already, and was just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to get through the next 2 weeks? PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): Recently this past year just before X-Mas I decided to put his love to the test. So I decided to set him up with my cousin to see if his love for me was true. So I asked my cousin to call him and see if he would hook up with her, Knowing that we were related. And she tried and suceeded. I mean It was great to find out what he was really about as far as committment. But I was lonely because we broke up the day before X-mas. I waa totally heartbroken and lonely
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): I was in your shoes this time lastyear i got with my partner 2 months before christmas then we spent 1 1/2 weeks apart over xmas due to family commitments.I totally agree with the texting it did give us a lot of comfort getting texts of each other saying luv u's missin u's etc.But the main thing is to keep yourself ocupied keep your mind active and the time will go quicker.I wont say its easy as i found it hard going but just keep thinking that you will be spending New year together. keep your chin up and think happy thoughts xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): Hey look I was in your shoes a few months ago when my girlf went to the states for 2 months! I missed her dreadfully at first and thought that she would be having 2 much of a good time to even think about me!!
BUT we kept in contact by mostly txting cos it was cheaper than ringing the whole time but also did ring each other a few times!
I think what helped us big time (in a weird way) was the time difference! Cos that meant I'd txt her or she'd txt me when I'd be in bed and it was a surprise to wake up to a loving txt from her :)
I mean 2 weeks is nothing - its not like 2 months! Just tell him how you feel. It brought us closer than ever before she went away and its great!!
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