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writes:we have been trying for a baby and succeded after 6months of trying. in the first week finding out i'm pregnant my partner has decided he deosnt want to be with me anymore.he says he wants the baby but not me this was 5 weeks ago and he still has not changed just got nasty.i trusted this man as i was in love this was his idea and all he ever wanted. my head is all over and i dont know how to come with the regection.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Life doesn't always work out as planned. You have to ask yourself if he was worthy of love after behaving so badly. If the relationship was going to end, it is perhaps better it happens before the baby arrives and you are even more emotionally drained. I think you just have to make a plan to be a single parent. He maybe leaving but soon you will have a gorgeous little baby who will love you unconditionally and change your life enormously. It is very sad when you break-up while pregnant, but you have to focus on the future of yourself and your child. This also includes making the necessary child maintenance arrangements with your ex.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 That's the most evil thing I have ever heard. If he's a billionaire he could have paid a surrogate mother to do this but since he isn't, he just lied to you and took advantage of your love. He's psycho. No, actually stupid. Who tells him he can have whoever's baby? The most he could have is a joint custody. He's not having the baby all to himself. It's not you. He would be doing this to the most wonderful woman. Just talk to your baby and ask it to be more like you and none like him.
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