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writes:Hi, I'm in a mostly great relationship of 7 months with my bf. He is 35, I'm 28. He gets moody, how do I deal with that? Also, he says that he got used to a luxurious life w/ me but now my business isn't making as much $ so Im cutting back and I feel bad... He also doesn't communicate very much what he likes me to wear, do in bed etc, I tried asking and he just said everything is fine. I really love him, so pls give me some advice. I am suffering from low self esteem from a bad prior relationship but am trying to work on that too.
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reader, tabsjrp +, writes (12 July 2011):
 I would get out of this relationship asap. He is not going to change. Believe me. I have one at home that has been moody, bully, angry all the time for 21 years. Why am I staying? Because at the moment I do not have a full time job and couldn't support myself and my 16 years old son, on my own.
Certain relations should be cut short, as soon as the other person starts to perceive how the "love of their lives" will be after they tight the knot. It seems the only thing he is there is because of the good life you provided, until YOUR business started not doing so well.
How can you have a relationship with someone that does not communicate with you? Is this a "one way street"? Best luck.
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