How do I convince him to come back to me?

A female age 41-50, *etaAri writes:

dear friend, i have been for a 5 months with my boyriend, but suddenly happend something that i didnt like to, but situation was that way, i loved him , also he , but always had a doubt in it with no reason only from my mind he always told me trust me I love you more than any one in the world, when i called him to come to me he always do that , in the night, also in internet to talk with him, also he reduced conversation with his friend only just for me to not mention that he is talking with some girls, every day he wrote me sms me , but this month he was working across the house and didnt have time for me he told me that , but i was doubt that he wont me anymore, I carried for him very much , I gave it to him always money because he dont work, but when he had money before he payed for everything, and I made I thing a mistake with him, in msn while we were talking with each other I made another adress to found out is he cheatig me or just was my bad meaning about him, I spoket to him in a same time with to adresses but he knowed that was me because no other girl wouldnt talk with him until he doesnt write him before, and he continued speaking with me , he wanted to to speak but only wanted my msn adress and camera than he would talk with me , ok I accepted that I apearred in may camera but he not, than he told me why you don this to me you never trust at me etc, but later I crayed much more then I ever thought, he wanted to live him alone for a while , untill that day we speak but never said to me i love you , or honey, dear etc he forgot or doesnt want because he told me that he is hurt so much , after two week we go out together and talket with this situation, he told me if i dint love you i dindt come to see you again but i need time to regain my love for me , I saw him in his face that he loves me , he took me in his arms , touchin my hair, drinked coffy with his cousin and later we say goodbay , but we didnt kissed he wanted that i nknow but what is in his mind i dont know, i love him, he have very thing in commen my father and his father are from the same city , but we live 80 km long distance from each other, i called him next day , i asked him do you love me , he said yes, i said him please say it , he olny said to me jeta . I stopped the phone and i didnt call him ffrom that day (3) it is very difficut fform me not hearing his voice, or text messag. me I cant sleep , eat, because i love him I need him, also he didnt call me eny more or text msg. what to do ,do i have to call him or let him call me . i read somem adices do not call him to miss me is that true or to call him, I now he is a good boy , I now he wont look for other women because he told me that before,, i need an answerer as soon as you can I MISS HIM SO MUCH....

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