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*nnaslace
writes:How do I come to terms with something that happened to me in a past relationship( last year)? I cry often because I now realize I was mentally, physically, emotionally and sexually abused during this relationship. Everyday I think about how he cornered me in his bedroom various times and had his fist drawn on me to hit me or how he tried to choke me or how he shoved me really hard into furniture and all the nasty names he's called me. I've never had a man do anything like that to me before. I hope and pray that the old saying is true, "what goes around comes around." Reply to this Question
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reader, annaslace +, writes (5 June 2007):
annaslace is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks much, it eases some of the pain to know that I didn't deserve this at no time!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 to be able to get over something u have to believe what happen was not ur thought and maybe u might need to go counselling to able to trust men again u have to believe that not all men are like that there are some sick men out there but u have to believe in ur self that u r stronger than any man and u will prove to that guy that he hasn't beaten u in anyway. i hope another guy will come into ur life and shine a bright light in ur life to show u that not all men are scum bags. hope things go right 4 u xxx
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (4 June 2007):
 i am i firm believer of "what goes around comes around" and it will, maybe not straight away but it will.
You need to be honest with yourself here and decide whether this is something you can face on your own, or need proffesional guidance with.
Ideally proffesional guidance would be the best move. You need to rid yourself of these fears so that you can start to build your confidence up again.
The effects that this has had on you are natural for anyone and i sympathise with your position. If you do not feel strong enough to deal with this, maybe turn to friends for support, but as i have said before proffesional guidance would serve you well.
What he done was wrong and unjustified. People like this make me sick and I know one day this will come back to haunt him and then and only then wil he realise what pain you have gone through.
Stay strong and you can do anything you put your mind to.
R
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