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writes:hi, i had a relationship with my best friend. we were friends for a few years and then fell in love. but after sometime we broke up.he said that it wasn't love he had for me.we were in contact. a few months later he came back and said he still had feelings for me. we got physical.we dint have sex. snogging,kissing and stuff. but then i realised that the relationship was not going anywhere and ended it. and i really hurt him at the end. now i feel guilty for leaving him and also feel ashamed about getting physical.i love him and really miss him. but a part of me is still confused that if he really loved me or just used me. what do i do to clear my mind? i am so confused and find it really hard to focus on other stuff. will i ever get over this? or will these thoughts and feelings for him never fade away? please suggest.
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reader, ladyjaye  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 stay away from him and give yourself chance to heal... he probably did that inorder to get his leg over, if it was sincere then he would understand when you stopped... you will get over him, just take your time confide in friends. go out and enjoy yourself and soon you'll be fine... gud luck!
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