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anonymous
writes:im moving to another city in a few weeks, which is about 2 hours away from were i live.I have a boyfriend that ive been with for about 7/8 months. He treats me really nice and i do love him but i feel like i want to be single and start a fresh when i move.But i dont feel like its enough to make me want to have a long distance relationship, its weird, because i do love him but maybe its not strong enough.When i got with him, there was this other guy i met about few months before that lives in the city im moving , and it was instant sparks!but because we couldn't be together because of he distant and have kept in contact. Its not just because o him though i just honestly want to move , start a fresh and be me. free single and independent.how do i break things off with my current boyfriend in the nicest way possible (i know there's no nice way but any advice would help) ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Enjoy your time right now and do what ever makes you happy. At your age you can still pull this one off a little longer. Best to get it out of your system now because you will be the one getting left behind once the guys you date start growing up.
Then again you could stop treating men like toys and your chances of not getting back what you have been dishing out will be reduced.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 November 2009):
 There is no such thing as a "nice way". There is an honest and direct way, and that is the one you should go for.
It will be a bad moment for him and for you, too, but that's how it should be. Honest and direct.
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