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writes: i have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 days starting on the first day i met her and she is very clingy. She cries if im late to meet her and if i go home on the bus. yesterday i met her friend whom i got very close to in a very short amount of time and ended up kissing(i am not the type of person 2 cheat) alot. I like her friend more and her friend likes me we both admitted we dnt regret it and we both want to be together but i dont want to hurt my girlfriend especially at christmas what do i do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): though what you did wasn't right i think you need to understand that being true to yourself is more important than worring about ohters. Your gf may be easily hurt and clingy, but it's not exactly a serious realationship(seeing as its only been 4 days). I think that if you like her freind you should go for her if that's what you want. If you not sure how to tell you gf try saying somthing like; I know were close but i don't hold the same feelings for you that you holf for me. I know you care for me but i can only see us as being freinds. IM sorry if i hurt you and i really dont want to but i have to do what's right for me. It seems that you don't feel attracted to her anymore so by saying that you don't hold strong feelings for her is telling her the truth without crushing her.
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