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How do I become her close friend without messing up her relationship?

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Question - (15 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ifeSaver94 writes:

Ok to start off there is this girl I really like. And she's sort of my friend. But she has a boyfriend already. I'm not going to interfere with that cause that make me an A hole. But I want to be a better friend nut not sire how. I talk to her sometimes but not nearly enough. And when I say that it means I texted get or facebooked her more. Pretty sad :(. So I'm hoping for some advice because today was her BDay and I only told her happy b day at least and age smiled and said thanks. And when I do see her in the halls or somewhere I want to go over but I'm nervous cause all her friends are always around her which a think a few of them might like me and her boy friend is also most the time now that I start hanging out with her around the begining of the 09 school year. ( that b**ch. Lol) I think he also might know I like her because of my funny facebook post she liked about her that she told him about. That turned into a big arguement. So if you have any useful advice that won't make a me an A hole girlfriend thief let me know thanks.

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A female reader, Sincerely Yours United States +, writes (15 December 2009):

Sincerely Yours agony auntDon't hit on her or punch her boyfriend and you're covered. It's not your responsibilty to keep her relationship in tact; it's hers. There's no reason that a trusting couple in a good relaitonship can't talk to people of the opposite sex. Talking to her in the halls and in class isn't going to do any damage and if it does, it's because she likes you and shouldn't be in another relationship anyway.

~SY

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