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writes: Hi im 21 and my boyfriend will soon to be 20 in June. I have been with him for about almost 3 months but we been good friends since i saw about...(i meant him when he was in 7th and i was in 8th) But we didnt become good friends til about 11th -12th grade....Anyways my mother is kicking me out on July 1st... I dont know why but for whatever reason im moving out. My bf's parents already accept me to move in.Im really confused cuz my mother wants me out but she doesnt approve of me moving in with my bf. She says she's going to disown me if i move in with my bf and my bf and i have mentally prepared for that. But it seems to me like it hurts cuz my mother doesnt talk to me anymore. I still have about a month or so before i move out but its so uncomforable cuz my mother doesnt even look at me or anything. How do I become a stronger person through all this and become better in the end??? My bf is proposing to me on our 6th month. I dont see anything wrong with moving in with him cuz him and i get along great. We are together every single day we are practially married...well we atleast like to think our hearts are cuz thats how much we are in love. And we are both christians and we arent sexually active cuz we are waiting for our wedding nite! So he very much so respects me in every way possible. I am 21 so i can make adult descions on my own but my mother doesnt like my descions. Im a really great daughter and im very loving and caring. My heart brokes if someone else is hurting. I feel like im hurting my mother but i dont know what else to do. She is always picking fights with me and stuff. she loves pushing my buttons....Plz if anyone else has been tho sumtin like this how did you get tho it? Any advice???
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): First, what is the reason why you're mother is kicking you out? That needs an explanation from your mother. You're 21? He's turning 20? You're both young. Why rush to get married on your sixth month anniversary? Get the feeling of independence, what it's like to be on your own. Do you have a job? Are you looking for a job? Going to school? Goals? Plans? Maybe the reason why you're mom is "picking" fights with you is because she's hurting inside. Have you ever asked what's wrong? Why is she doing this? Sit down and talk to your mom on what's going on in her life.
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