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How do I ask him out? He's shy!

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Question - (25 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok well I really like this guy and we have great chemistry( we almost kissed once).hes really really shy I'm shy but not as much.well the problem is that we both hint around going out but no one actually asks.how can I ask him out or just ask to hang out with him without being really nervous?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009):

since he's shy, but clearly sounds like he's interested…just man up and go for it! i've always gone after shy/quiet guys myself…you're the one w/ the control…chances are, he'll be turned on to the fact that you've taken the innitiative to do so…just say it in words…sit down and tell him straight up…don't lay it on too thick though, you don't want to scare the guy away…just tell him that you enjoy spending time with him, and that you hope you can spend more time together in the future…you like that you feel comfortable around him, that you can be yourself…stuff like that

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