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writes:How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends?She, that is, they, know I like her, and they say she likes me, but I don't know what to think. Her friends are the gossipy tye, and have a habit of stretching things to get a laugh at someone's expense. I can get nervous simply looking at her when she's around them.One one occasion during a science lesson, a note came my way. The classic language of relationships. They claimed it was written by her, but I don't know if she did write it, of they wrote it, of they told her to write it for a laugh, and she did. It said something like "I love you and I want to know if you feel the same way." I don't know what to make of it. It's bloody confusing, and I want to be able to just speak with her without her friends giggling in the background, but I can't exactly ask for a private word. That'll just set them all off again. I'm kinda new to this too, never had a girlfriend before, so I've got no clue as to what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Cool, I can answer mi own question!
Thanks 4 the advice everyone. Still haven't asked her out, but it has all been helpful.
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reader, Kirstel Flirstel +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hi there, how are you? Do you have this girls mobile number, I think she probally does like you, and maybe is scared her self. Silly as it sounds i did once when i was at akwl and liked a guy i would liek my mates to stay with me as i felt liek i might do sumthing wrong. Lol. If you dont have her mobile number when you see her on her own you could ask her then if you could have it and then give her a text later in the day. You may feel that my advice isnt that good, bt what i will say is to not give up! If you want to talk i am here for you, :) Takecare and goodluck Xx Xx
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (7 September 2007):
 okay the note passing thing your right is typical of a group of girls, can i ask whether u have ur mobile number or msn??? if not this might be the way u go bout things...this way u dnt have her friends around and it seems like there only causing u embarassment....
at least let the friendship grow...give it time and maybe things will develop, as i dont no the girl in question, its tricky to judge....
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): You know what they say, birds of a feather flock together. If her freinds are this shallow & crude, I can only assume she is too. I would move on & try to find a nice girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): My friends are exactley the same i went out with this guy and they wouldnt stop taking the mickey out of him so i ended it for his sake, it does get better eventualy. All girls are like it, i suppose i probably do it sometimes lol i dont mean to intentionaly hurt their feelings. Anyway get her when shes on her own, or in a lesson where she isn't crowded around her friends, or even get her number and ring when you know her friends arent there. Also if you get one of your mates to see if he likes one of her friends and double date it should take all the attention of you and her. Hop this helps :) xx
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