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writes:How to ask a girl out on a date?Hello. I am a boy in his 20s, never been in a relationship, In college, AND would like to go out with girls VERY MUCH!Let’s be honest here. I am scared of asking girls out because I have never done it and don’t know how.So, I don’t know what to do if there is a girl in my class that I don’t know but would like to go out with. Or, if there is a girl in the bar that, again, I like and want to know etc. etc. etc.There are so many situations that I can write a book about them. But I think the answer is either very simple or can be summarized easily; however, I don’t know how. Can you help me please? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): oh no problem at all :D hope things work out !
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): that's what you have to be careful with complementing on her say her butt is too much but eyes , if you think they're pretty than its a great start but you can use anything you want really like even there type of coffee they drink and start a conversation off that if the complement thing makes you nervous, so yeah if you want start it off with the type of beverage there drinking and go right into the convo "Where are you originally born?" you know those basic questions to get you guys talking
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANKS A LOT BREADTOTOAST!
Your general guideline is very helpful. I will definitely use it after until I find my own method of comfortably and confidently approaching girls.
Since you are nice to answer my question, here is another one. you said use "...excuse me i was sitting over there till i was distracted by you , you have the most beautifulest eyes " as a conversation starter. Is it appropriate to give such specific physical compliments to women when I meet them for the first time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): ok so you see a cute girl , first make eye contact once she looks over give her a smile look for 3 seconds and turn away and proceed to what you were doing before do this about 2 times go over and to her and say "excuse me i was sitting over there till i was distracted by you , you have the most beautifulest eyes " something along those lines she'll say thank you and yadaya so start up the conversation "do you come here often? " something like that just start the first sentence with humor or a complement that will open up a conversation at the end make sure your the one to go say "i need to leave but I'd really like to talk again, can i have your number?" but be confident, don't be shy about this look her in the eyes when you speak to her. if you need more complements say she's wearing a really cool pin or something you find interesting on her. was that a little more detailed ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWould you be a little more detailed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): the stupider the begging of your sentence is the more she'll remember you start of with a complement but be CONFIDENT! and don't come across as creepy look her in the eyes and complement her if you take it she;s interested carry on with the conversation , like is she enjoying her drink but don't pound her with questions . like this one time this guy noticed i was being a little cold because i didn't want to talk to him (bad night) so he said "you know that wall your putting up? can you let me in?" of course i laughed and we had a great conversation. make her laugh and complements believe it or not it does work you just need to have confidence , much love hope things work out 3
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