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How do I act around my friend now?

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Question - (2 July 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i dont know how to act around my friend anymore. we became good friends and have known each other 3 years. ive always been attracted to him and he made a story where he said he views me as a sister but i found that hard to believe as he has lied a lt about stuff such as he asked me to check something on his email and i found a string of emails between him and this girl he said was from england but turned out to be filipino. hes been getting payday loans out for her but denies it yet regularly hints he needs cash. when he first met me he neede a lot of help and seemed genuine but in the last year hes treated me crappy, lies and borrows money, we work on a team of 20 and hes tried to distance himself from me. because im emotionally attached ts made me hurt as he didnt do this before so i went excessive texting and emailing to ask why he had changed. he ignores me regularly and makes me chase him. hes not even great looking but i was attracted to him. im ashamed of my behaviour but dont understand why hes changed how can i get my confidence back and what should i do ?

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