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writes: Hi, My name is jason and I have recently just got married to a beautiful woman who I love more than anything in the world. We have both been working in Tenerife this last year and things have been going wrong! I have become a very bitter and angry man not only to my wife, but towards my friends and family. I have become violent towards my wife and I am ashamed of it. She has now gone back to England and I feel my relationship is over. I have let her down and hurt her more than once. You must understand, I have never been like this before,I have always had a anger problem due to past family experiences but never violent. I am seeing a shrink and have been since the new year.It is helping but I feel it maybe a little too late.It has been very hard what being the lead role as well as the production manager in a popular show here in Tenerife, getting married also has been hard. Especially here in Tenerife! I love my wife very much and I want her to be happy. If there is anything you could suggest,I would appreciate it very much.We both know we love one another but she can't be around me untill I deal with my issues. I am also a very envious person and find it difficult to trust.I await in anticipation.Jason
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2005): Perhaps you hit the nail on the head there Jason... TRUST.It is good that you are seeking advice on your anger. What ever happens with your relationship, you must deal with this first.I can tell you love your wife and that you are upset by what has happened. It is very brave of you to admit these things to total strangers but it is also brave of your wife to stick to her guns about her decision. You have a lot of work to do Jason and I admire you for wanting to work this out. I know you are wanting your lovely wife back with you but - Please make sure you do it for yourself too.I wish you the very best of luck and keep up the good work.Remember, you are ashamed of your actions but be proud you recognise the problems and that you are willing to help yourself.
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