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writes:My first boyfriend and I have been dating for almost fourteen months now. We've talked about the other two girls that he has dated, but I just realized yesterday that I had never asked him about (or even thought about) his first kiss or french kiss or anything. He told me without a problem, but it is bothering me to no end because everything we've ever been through, it must have been horribly different for him than me, seeing as they were all my first times and not his . And he described what he told me fondly (even though he hates the girl now). He's still the only boy I've so much as kissed.I need to know, how different is a first kiss if it was truly one of their firsts, and not the other's? How can I get over being upset if it all happened in the past, even though he loves me now? Reply to this Question
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reader, JaniceLatrop +, writes (19 May 2010):
JaniceLatrop is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the info, anonymous male reader on May 15th. I hope you have better luck with someone else! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): I've french-kissed twice. I sort of liked the girl, but I didn't love her.Kissing her felt 'gooey'. That's it, it wasn't amazing, it wasn't great. It was okay, but gooey.If your kiss was better than that, it wasn't because it was the first, it's because you two care more about each other than we did!
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reader, JaniceLatrop +, writes (17 May 2010):
JaniceLatrop is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just wanted to make sure that a kiss would be special not because it's first in general, but because it was OUR first, I guess. thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): People put way, way too much influence on "the first kiss".
I don't think it's that different, he might be a little more relaxed when it comes to romance but I'm betting your self-consciousness is cute to him. My first kiss? Not that picture perfect. The kisses after that? Still just as amazing, even better sometimes. So relax, keep that charming blush and self-conscious curiosity if you want, but just enjoy kissing and enjoy the awesome boyfriend I'm sure he is.
Good luck ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): i completely understand how you feel. i really don't know what the answer is but i'll be following this question because i want to see what other people responded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): You don't need to worry, your 15 max so just enjoy life, your so young.
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