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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, I've caught that my boyfriend of 3 years add some new girls on facebook and liking their disgusting status. When fisrt I ask him why he likes it, he said he's carelessly pressing the like button. Then, when I check his notification, I found that he's the one who added them. He told me that he's not contacting them and nothing. I'm not such an over jealous person ever, last year, I found that he lied to me. He went to club and he told me he's sleeeping. Later I found out his friend tagged his picture holding others girl arm, almost hug her. I got so down and he told me that he's just over drunk. I also caught him several times chatting with other girl. His family loves me especially his dad. My family and his don't know about our relationship trouble and now I want to tell his sister about this that I don't know what should I do about how I feel now. For this 2 years while I'm having problem with him, I don't tell anybody as it will only make him ashamed. I keep it all alone and I just can't do that anymore. How to start conversation and tell his sister about this? I hope that his sister and parent can advice him. I want him to take responsibilities for what heve done to me. Thanks for reading.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2013): You are who you are. He is who he is. Imagine living your entire life worrying about which "like" button he clicked and if he is hugging other female friends.
I will not get into whether or not you are controlling or if he is too liberal with his "likes". I am saying if you are uncomfortable, move on.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (2 April 2013):
No offense, but you don't sound like an angel here. You are insecure and controlling from the sound of things. There's no reason to get dramatic because of anything you've said he did.
You certainly don't need to be going behind his back to his family to try and manipulate him further.
If he's not treating you the way you think you deserve for an entire 2 years then why in the world are you with him? For 10% of your life he's been giving you problems. Do you want that percentage to keep going up?
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