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writes:Right i would like to know if you think that someone would just do this if they had feelings for you/fancied you. Because my mates reckons this guy wouldnt have done this if he didnt but im still unsure as to what to believe.he doesnt normally do this with people, yea obviously he messes around and has fun with them but he wouldnt go this far. he is kinda shy when it comes to girls he likes depending on how they are with him. if they;re flirty hes fine after a while but if they;re shy it doesnt help him and im very shy. Btw hes never had a true gf. Btw neither of us were drunk.Anyway we went out one night and he wasnt meant to be coming due to other arrangements however he was obvious he hadnt gone and then suprisingly text me to see if we were out. He came up we didnt talk much at first however he knew the others would be leaving early and so he asked me to stay out with him which was a shock. We got on fine just laughing and talking. Then we went to a different pub and i jokingly sat on his knee as we were messing around alot. Except while i was sat there he started to cuddle me, like properly, holding me tighter n tighter from behind. At one point he had his head in my hair and on my sholder/neck but he wasnt saying anything he just kept holding me. We continued to mess around and then he took me outside and he seemed extremely nervous and he said look im sorry for the past, we;re great mates arent we and we always will be. and just kept looking at me. He sounded very nervous. i hugged him and he just wouldnt let go of me. For the rest of the night we were just having fun and he kept cuddling me, rubbing my arm n leg etc. And then we wre having a talk on the way home and he said how people kept saying i liked him in the past, which i knew about, and he said he kept thinking well does she or dont she??Also we went out and he was really quiet with me, we left our mates to go home and i went to get food but started to feel very ill whilst waiting, i was panicing etc. and he just kept saying you'll be alright, afew times he held my arm saying it. Which i thought as nothing because hes just looking after me. And then he held my hand, he seemed very unsure and nervous as if he had to build up the courage and then stopped and then did it again properly. After a while he put his arms round me and hugged me from behind and held my hand again, truely held it this time and id calmed down abit by then. Obviously he made sure i was walking with him but when we were walking he kept doing things like if i took ym arm from round him he;d put it back. when we were just stood talking he suddenly just grabbed me and hugged me. when i walked of he grabbed me from behind and held me close, which i wouldnt think anything of but its where he had his hands. and also when we parted i hugged him for quite sometime and he had his hands on my bum. (btw we had another mate with us on this occasion)I dont know about you but touching someones bum isnt a cure for a hangover! Please let me know what you think here.
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