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How can you get a guy "unafraid" of commitment?

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Question - (16 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2008)
A age 41-50, * writes:

My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months!! Things havn't been going so well for the two of us so we decided a break would be the best for now then that turned into a break up. At first I couldn't figure out why he wanted this becuause I knew how much he loved me and it was unbelievable. It still is. Just a week ago he told me he was afraid of commitment and the break up had nothing to do with me. Please help me on how i can give him confidence in commitment and any other advice you can give me!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

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thxx for responding, it is greatly appriciated and i will try some of the suggestions you have given me!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008):

Is this really worth pursuing? You cooled things because it wasn't going well and subsequently split. This is compounded by the fact he has admitted fear of commitment.

One-way love is not the way to go so maybe you should ease up on the commitment thing and just try and enjoy the relationship for a while longer before discussing a future together. Six months is, after all, a bit soon. If, after a few more months the relationship is still in an iffy state, think hard about moving on.

Good luck.

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