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writes: My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months!! Things havn't been going so well for the two of us so we decided a break would be the best for now then that turned into a break up. At first I couldn't figure out why he wanted this becuause I knew how much he loved me and it was unbelievable. It still is. Just a week ago he told me he was afraid of commitment and the break up had nothing to do with me. Please help me on how i can give him confidence in commitment and any other advice you can give me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthxx for responding, it is greatly appriciated and i will try some of the suggestions you have given me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Is this really worth pursuing? You cooled things because it wasn't going well and subsequently split. This is compounded by the fact he has admitted fear of commitment.
One-way love is not the way to go so maybe you should ease up on the commitment thing and just try and enjoy the relationship for a while longer before discussing a future together. Six months is, after all, a bit soon. If, after a few more months the relationship is still in an iffy state, think hard about moving on.
Good luck.
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