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How can you find out if someone is divorced or not ?

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Question - (5 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *ancing_boo writes:

Does anyone know of a good free website which enables you to check past marriage documents/divorce records of someone?

I just want to check that my ex is divorced like he says he is.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007):

i need to find out if someone is divorced or not

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A female reader, annette57 +, writes (12 November 2006):

If You found a good site or how to find out if your partner is divorced like he says could you please tell me my partners wife or ex keeps telling him he is divorced but we or he hasnt seen or signed any papers and we would like to know if he is or isnt

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (5 July 2006):

Yos agony auntNo not really.

Let me give you an example:

I got married in the UK to an American, moved to the US, moved to the Netherlands, and got divorced there using a lawyer based in Guam.

Net result:

- UK still thinks I'm married

- Americans (should) know I'm divorced, since Guam is US

- The dutch refuse to accept I'm divorced (even though my ex-wife now lives in Sweden) because they won't accept a fax from Guam. So they 'know' but won't act on it

This illustrates the mess that divorce can be... and shows that the idea that you can go to one place to find out if someone is divorced is... somewhat flawed.

Your best bet is probably to find out where he got divorced (you'll have to ask him), and especially who they filed the divorce with. You can then check with that authority.

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