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writes:dear cupid my boyfriend and i are always arguing mostly over nothing just little things that annoy us about eachother every time we get on track something happens to upset that we have managed to stay together for a year now but the petty arguments have caused us to break up three times already and they are now starting again i dont want to lose him as we are both complety devoted to one another please help Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 16months now and we have soo many arguments, i hardly see him as much as i wish, once a week sometimes even once every 2 weeks, depending on his job and we argue over the phone and when we are with each oteher we do to. You just realy need to get over them. When you have an arguemtn you will get angry and think the worst, but when you have calmed down it will be better and this will always happen. If you wish to break up again then i rly suggest u dont get back together.. Me and my partner havent broken up yet but we have come close many times but we both know we love each othr and if it was over, we would sort it out. Think about what you realy want, caan you see yourself with him in the future? mail me if you would like to talk, and i wish you luck x
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reader, kenny +, writes (14 October 2007):
 I agree with flower girl, you both need to sit down and find the route cause of why you both keep having these petty arguments. I don't know im simply assuming here, but could it be because you see to much of each other?. Seeing to much of one another can sometimes lead to petty arguments, so a little break or a change in the times you see one another can work wonders.
All the best x
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reader, flower girl +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Maybe you both need to sit down and try and work out exactly what triggers off arguements, what annoys you about him and what annoys him about you.
If you both adore each other that much then you need to identify what these issues are and then try and avoid doing these things when the other is around.
Take care.xx.
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