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writes: I broke up with my girlfriend just over a month ago. We were together for 2 years, she had an abusive childhood and together we helped overcome her issues (bulimia, low self esteem etc).She's 19 while I'm 27, we broke up because I was her only sexual partner and she wanted to try others. So I respected her wishes and we broke up. I told her that being friends straight away is out of the question, yet if she ever needed me I was only a call away.A few weeks later she text me saying she was positive for chlamydia, so I got myself tested the next day, a week later I was given my results these were all negative.Last week I was on holiday. She emailed me on Friday 11th July. A really long email and very heartfelt, telling me that I was the only one for her how much she wants me to be mine with every tiny bit of her heart and that she thought I had cheated on her when she got the results (despite the fact I have never cheated on her or any partner in my life).I replied to her, not telling her no but actually stating that I find her quite manipulative for example she had me blaming myself for the chlamydia etc. She then text me saying she's willing to do whatever it takes (this was all on Friday)When I got home I checked facebook to see she was openly flirting with a guy while she she was sending me that email.Two days later after her sending me that email she's now in a relationship with this guy. I was doing well, wouldn't say over her but getting there slowly, then she emailed me and sucked me right back in, how could she say such deep heartfelt things and within two days start a relationship with another guy, who she has openly called "gorgeous".
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reader, weary-zone  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 look every girl when she breaks up she get very emotional and the first thing she do is to get in a new relationship and this is normal .. but i don't really think that she got over you at all if she really loves you and a lot of girls when they break up the do a lot of stupid things to there ex its just without a reason . so just get over it because may be she didn't love you may be she centered her life on you its just a matter of time so you better get over her she's emotional and a girl never forgets her ex no matter how its hard to forget someone you been with for two years =)
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reader, jamesshort256  +, writes (14 July 2008):
i dunno what to say, my ex did the same thing..... move on dude, she is using u.
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