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36-40,
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writes: I’m on a group tour. Most people on the tour have a partner or travel companion. Being a single traveler I was thinking about not going on the trip but then I thought I should. Anyways, on the tour I met a cute woman who is also a single traveler. During the free time when most of the people go with their partner or travel companion I have went around with this woman. It turns out that we have quite a bit in common and have had fun so far. The tour group lasts for another couple of weeks. Then I have extended the going home time. It turns out that this woman also has. Before this whole thing ends I would like to have sex with her. Is there a way I should let her know this?If we do it should we wait until the formal group breaks up and we on our own? Or does it matter? Has anyone had an experience with travel romance? Has anyone had an experience with having sex during a tour group? Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 You don't say what country you are from and they are not showing those little flags anymore on this site but I think you line of questioning is odd for one. As an adult male, if you establish a romantic relationship with a woman then a sexual encounter will occur sooner or later but it seems to me that you have some sort of timetable or agenda for getting her into bed. Do you?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Well, the trick is not to come out and ask for sex with her, because she'll think that you want sex FROM her, as in, you want to use her while you're travelling. That's out. You have to ascertain whether or not she's the type of girl who is up for no-strings sexual fun, or whether she saves herself for a bonafide relationship.
You have to read her signals and steer the conversation to get a feel on which type she is. I would advise not to lie by promising more than what she's willing to give, i.e. don't promise her the start of something "magical" or lead her on to believe you want more than just sex if you don't.
Otherwise, if she's the type to have sexual fun while travelling, have fun with the seduction, and it'll be a night (or nights) you will never forget! Make sure you are ultra-safe and use condoms.
If she's not the type to have casual sex, you may need to find someone different.
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