How can I win her trust back after we both had an affair?

A male age 51-59, *azzy writes:

My wife had an affair, ihad an affair first, but she didnt know. She had an affair because she felt like shit. I want to get back with her, emotionally i am attached to her. I know that things will never be the same, i dont want them to be the same, has i had an affair first. How can i win her trust back?

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