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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I met this girl last October (07) at a class party in UCLA and we both have a mutual friend. She was "sort-of" seeing a guy at the time but I was gobsmacked by her beauty. I found out about her and eventually found out her guy-friend relationship deteriorated a few months later. I knew that it was my chance to get in there! I struck up a friendship with her and managed to get her number through a charity fundraiser we did in college.She was in my Psychology class last year and I was moved and added to the team beside her in the labs. I asked her to go this formal function with me though it was through text. We had a great time although we got horribly drunk! Nothing happened because we didnt really know each other. Communication still occurred but only through SMS. I dont think she copped on that I liked her until one night when we were dropped into town by our mutual friend and she didnt want to go to the niteclub because her friends wouldnt go out..then we went out the next night and she was in my face but her friends were sussing me out, I felt very paranoid....the next night she stuck around me....but we did nothing! I cooked her dinner, played pool etc, but it seemed as though I always had to do the arranging, we snuggled up watching DVD but I did nothing!She got really frustrated one night in March with me and demanded to go home early but on the night of my birthday she gave me an extremely awkward kiss (only after asking!) on the night of my birthday.She had to study for an exam in April so we didnt spend much time together.She left for Maine (which is a good distance) for the summer and we had limited contact through MySpace. Before she left I gave her a letter describing how I felt about her and she agreed with me? Now that she's returned we've become distant. I've learned to dance for her but after a few attempts to woo her back she still declines....with "thanks but I can't"!She is a very beautiful girl but there is something about her that I'd like to discover, something unusual...not like any other girl I've met before! She is constantly on my mind and when she's not im reminded somehow by her! I've actually never felt so confused and frustrated! How can I win her back into my arms? Is persistance the key?:(
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