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writes:How soon do you spend a whole weekend with your ex girlfriend? It's been a week and another week before that we weren't speaking after we argued. She dumped me, we start talking again, taking trips down memory lane, saying the I miss and love you. I fancy you, I want you etc.We had a weekend booked that was our Valentine's Day weekend, we break up actually on Valentine's Day yet are still going together. Is it going to be awkward? How can I win her back in one weekend? Or am I holding onto hope she will come running back to me and she has no intention of coming back to me? What I want to work out is if she was can someone really go away as friends if she still loves and fancies me? If so please give me tips on how to romance her and win her back
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 February 2016):
 I think it is much to soon for you both to be going away as friends. The hurt and pain is still fresh. Hopefully the argument has been forgotten about at least and will be solved fully before you both go away. I personally think it will be very awkward. You both need to know where you stand with each other before going away. Ask her why is she still going? Is it possible she wants to sort things out? Or does she see you as a friend?
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (26 February 2016):
 Kinda weird still going I think. It is too much too soon given you are still hoping and she is in the friend zone. Who paid for the weekend anyway, you, her or did you go dutch? The reason I ask is how do you know she is just going to get what she paid for? Sorry if that comes off as mean, it's not meant too. All I'm saying is if you are prepared to go then be prepared for anything because there is a whole lot of mixed messages going on to determine what will happen. Just play it cool, take things with a pinch of salt and see where things lead. Good luck.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (26 February 2016):
 I believe you need to stay cool. Don't go running after her. Let her come to you if she wants to. She may still be considering her options, and if the argument is still fresh in her mind then it can take time to dissipate. You need to start building from the base up again. Good luck.
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