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writes:i met my boyfriend a year or so ago and he has a best friend, but his best friend is a chick. thats totally cool. one of my friends decided to have a camping wk end nd i went, so did my not at that time boyfriend did go as well. he arrived with this chick, because they r best friends. which was cool. he knew i liked him. we all weere drinking alcohol but were not drunk. his best friend starting vomiting so he raced over laying her down beside him and wiping her hair out of her face, so the vomit didnt go in her hair . just like as if they were together. i didnt actually worry about it until one of my other friends who is a boy walked up to me and said he doesnt like you look at them they're perfect together and laughed i tried to laugh too, but couldnt. the rest of that night i kept asking myself wheather he liked me or her. but today; 11 months after me nd my boyfriend are from the next day after that camping trip have been together as girlfriend and boyfriend. i love him so much, and i am pretty sure he loves me. my problem is though my friend, that same boy who said that my boyfriend and his best friend whos a girl look perfect for eachother keeps coming up to me and saying stuff to me about them. evrytime he does i yell at my boyfriend. that happened for about 7 months. but now i still try to not notice how my boyfriend reacts around her, its just hard to not realise everything they do when my friend kept saying crap about them when it wasnt true. how can i start trusting my boyfriend around his best mate, after i keep thinking of what my friend keeps telling me about them both???
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): I suspect that this other friend of yours who is a boy would like you to see you and your boyfriend split so that he can have you to himself. He sounds like a real shit stirrer, whilst your boyfriend seems like a nice sort who helps a mate out once in a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): it sounds to me as if your friend who keeps telling you things wants you guys to split up... i wouldnt take any notice of it all u will end up doin is driving ur boyf away and giving this other person exactly what he wants.
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