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*asmiley1364
writes:hi well i nned some help im 18 and i want to have a baby...i love kids n i have been taking care of them sence i was 13..or maybe even younger..i just dont know how to tell my boyfriend that i want a baby..whats the easiest way to tell some one u want a baby without freaking them out??
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (12 June 2008):
I think that the first thing to do is see if you can really afford a baby. No matter how much you love a baby that doesn't feed or clothe them. The next thing to think about is if you and your boyfriend haven't talked about kids them you aren't very far along in your relationship and you should maybe be more certain on your partner, but if you are hell bent on asking thenI would bring up the future. Ask about marriage and how many kids you want and what age he feels would be right. The best you can say is that you are ready at any moment to have a child but you have to respect if he is not. Dont "accidently" forget to take the pill or tell him you are to hot to wait for a condom it isn't fair to him. His first moment as a father should be when he is ready or he will feel overwhelmed and not ready and could even feel like a failure as a dad. If you want a baby that bad then find another man who is ready now.
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reader, Short timer +, writes (12 June 2008):
 1. get married 2. be finnancially able to care for a child
3. talk with your husband that you want to have a child 4. go to a planned parenthood center
link-
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
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