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How can I tell my b/f his kissing technique needs to be improved?

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Question - (19 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend is a little crazy with the kissing.

B/c its all over my face, and soo much slobber.

I started it a week go to where i would use my tongue more, but i was really mellow about it, and didn't push it. But his tongue is about to choke the living hell out of me! Ever since then..hes been EXTREME tongue upsested

When hes acting this way, i usually try to make my kisses more settled, to where he'll get the picture- but that certainly doesn't work, b/c while im giving "small loving, gentle kissing", his tongue is all over my face and throat.

I know relationships are about communication, but i don't want him to feel embarrassed. B/c during the entire time, i just acted like i liked it so he doesnt think im mad...so its kinda my fault...

Plus...i don't want to ruin the mood,by making him

How can i fix his kissing, and hint around..that he needs to swallow some of that slobber, and not share!?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

First of all, you shouldn't have pretended you liked it.

You probably know that by now. You should have just kept still.

I had a b/f like that. One thing you could do is tell him that you dont like TOO BIG kisses.

Another away is Next time try kissing him on the cheeks and say you like small kisses too.

Or if that doesnt work, just stop kissing while he's going to far. He'll get it . He might ask you whats wrong, and then you can tell him that its a bit too much what he's doing.

Good luck!

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think being blunt is the only way he will learn, you have to tell him kissing him is like being force fed a slug and you like a little bit of tongue action but not all of his tongue!

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