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36-40,
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writes:Bizarre question...but I really need advice on how to stop my fascination with this girl. I started Uni 2 years ago and have since become infatuated with this girl that is on my course. I literally think of her, and stare at her, all the time. But we are two *completely* different people; we have totally different interests and tastes; we have hardly anything in common; and I know that if I asked her out it wouldn't last...but I still keep thinking of her! I know it sounds completely stupid and it is really starting to annoy me because she is the only girl I think about...even after I meet other girls who I share a lot more in common with!!Any advice on how I can learn to stop this fascination? It is driving me crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Maybe you should ask her out.
It'll take your mind off her gradually, and you maybe pleasantly suprised.
If you want to get over her, cut the contact, cut everything - hard but if you stick to it, it would work. Go out with friends. Don't go looking for anyone else for the moment. See family. Keep yourself busy. Then start looking for other people.
It'll take time and perservance. But stick to it and it should pay off.
Sorry I can't help you more.
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reader, xxsecretsxx  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 You never know if it is going to last till you try. My advise, you need to at least ask her on a date, you can't constantly stare and think about her.
Not to mention that as a girl myself if I knew a guy was watching me it would get creepy. You don't want to end up looking the the weird guy.
As her to the movies or something she likes, find your simularities.
I have a feeling that the reason you like her so much is because she is a mystery to you.
Good luck,
trich.
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