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writes:just to give a lil bit of background information first:i go to school in the uk and i met a lad called rob and we talk and flirt and once at the end of break we went somewhere quiet and had a lil kiss. For the next few months we flirt etc then one day after school i see him we get talking and end up kissing, i gave him my number and then today he rang me and asked me if i wanted to go to his house, i went to his house and we ended up kissing passionatly and i got reali into it and excited down below i felt like i wanted sex with him, but i dont because i dont love him. How can i stop my sefl getting so overwhelmed and wanting to have sex with him, when i know its not right??? please help im meeting up again with him soon..... thanks for any help you can give me xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your help so far
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (22 May 2007):
 you cant help how your body reacts to things but you seem very smart.if you dont want to do this then dont. maybe dont spend too much time alone with eachother,try going out as a group or something.
its so so easy to give in to things,but like you say its not right. if you feel under pressure then you must not put yourself in that situation anymore because you never know what could happen.
but like i said you seem a smart lass,enjoy your self,but PLEASE be safe.
nicola.xxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): Hi there,
If i was you I would listen to what your mind is telling you. You wouldnt want to have any regrets so you need to be sure that your doing the right thing. Maybe if you got to know him better and did something outside of school you will have a better idea and it will also determine how he feels. Hope this helps x
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