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How can I stop by bf from coming so fast during sex?

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Question - (11 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for the past two months and we have been real happy, I lost my virginity to him and he told me he had sex before, he is real open and caring about it. He always asks me if I'm on with him trying something new, he is truly amazing.

The only thing is that sometimes we get really carried away and away and just do intercourse and he comes really fast, which leaves me just turned on and wanting more! What can I do to help him not come on me so fast and slow intercourse!

Help!!

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A female reader, cupidus Canada +, writes (12 May 2011):

cupidus agony auntTeach him algebra, paste questions on headboard.

LOL..

You could have a quicky and than wait a short while and get into it again. One for you one for me kinda deal. At least until he gains more control through algebra.

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A male reader, refinishing United States +, writes (12 May 2011):

Great question. The best thing you can do without offending him (actually, this could spice things up!) is if YOU take control. Get on top, set the pace for awhile, speed it up, slow it back down. I'm not sure what you are both into, but playing around with each other and not rushing into actual intercourse should help things out too. If he tries to rush it, insist that he be patient. Tell him that, teasingly. "Be patient baby. It'll be worth it." More for you, more for him, everyone wins!

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