A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hey, when i met a boy i always used to jump in too fast and sleep with them too soon. due to this i have got a name for myself and now every boy i meet just wants one thing. I've changed now and want to get a boyfriend but how can i stop boys using me for sex and know which ones are the right guys to go for?? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Oh, this is easy...
1. STOP having sex with them.
2. When you're on a date and they guy pressures you for sex, tell him no, if he asks again, end the date right then.
3. repeat step #2, till you find a guy who will date you till you are READY to have sex... this should be at least a few months.
You seem to be using your body as a way to try to hook a guy and keep him. What you appear to have learned is that doesn't work.... so remember that!
|