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How can I stop boys just using me for sex?

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Question - (25 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, when i met a boy i always used to jump in too fast and sleep with them too soon. due to this i have got a name for myself and now every boy i meet just wants one thing. I've changed now and want to get a boyfriend but how can i stop boys using me for sex and know which ones are the right guys to go for??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010):

Oh, this is easy...

1. STOP having sex with them.

2. When you're on a date and they guy pressures you for sex, tell him no, if he asks again, end the date right then.

3. repeat step #2, till you find a guy who will date you till you are READY to have sex... this should be at least a few months.

You seem to be using your body as a way to try to hook a guy and keep him. What you appear to have learned is that doesn't work.... so remember that!

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