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writes: Ok I am 18 and been with a man for 2 years now we love each other but how can I stop from being so darn uptight and annoying?? We argue a lot and we always make up but I hate yelling all the time and stuff.. I dont know what to do??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): sweetheart, we all argue. fact! we cant spend a significant amount of time with one person and always get on. only the other day during a conversation about our forthcoming marriage and life together my fiancee said "we may argue 2 or 3 times a week but nobody could ever say we dont love eachother. we will always be alright". there have seldom been truer words spoken! we do argue like you and your other half, but we still make up and we still love eachother. even during an arguement i have told him that i still love him despite being cross with him. dont beat yourself up about this. your man has been with you for 2 years now, if your arguements where that much of an issue he would be long gone. i bet he just sees it as everyday stuff like most of us do. dont worry. good luck
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