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writes:Me and my bf had been together for about 13 months but i always had trust issues with him so he left me,we broke up for 2 months and just got back together 5 days ago.Now its even harder because i found out he got a gf while we broke up but he didn't last a week with her,he told me it wasn't the same with her and it didn't feel right.But i just have a hard time believing him now and it's killing me,i know he hates it when i bring her up.I worry that he'll compare me to her and just want to leave me for her.And now i feel like he thinks he can have any girl better than me.Before there wasn't a reason for me to not trust him even though i didn't but now since he had that gf it really is harder for me,even having him talking to new girls.How can i just get over it and trust him?Help me :[
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Hi!
The biggest part of a relationship is trust!
I can't speak for everyone but I have found in my own realtionships that when a woman doesn't trust her man her instincts are usually right!
I'm not saying that he is out cheating on you but you may have all reason not to trust him because of his behaviour etc.
My advice to you is to think carefully about what YOU want in your life and your relationship?
If you think you can overcome the trust issue and start trusting him again then give it a shot, but if you really believe he has broken your trust forever and that this relationship isn't how you imagined than you already have your answer.
Listen to your gut instict because deep down you know what is right for you to do.
I hope this helps! :)
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