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writes: hi, i gave my bf a blow job but i felt like it wasnt satisfying enough. He got me going faster and all that which was fine but then he wanted more of deep throating, and i just couldnt do it. I almost gagged once, and that was a little embarrassing even tho im comfortable w/ my partner. He was almost to orgasm each time i tried but i just couldnt let it go that deep, even tho i was trying. He was so close each time and i had to cut it short. I tried using my hands too, but the deep throating is what does it for him. We have a great relationship and he doesnt put any pressure on me to do anything but i want to make it good for him anyway. So my question is what can i do to make it better and satisfy my guy?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 If you have to deep-throat your boyfriend a lot every time it is going to be very hard work for you. If he's insisting on deep-throat then he's probably just seen it in porn and wants what he has seen. What you (and he) should remember is that porn is not 'real' sex and what you see done is really often not possible (they edit out all the bits they don't want you to see).
Honestly, using your hand at the same time as your mouth can be 99% the same as deep-throating. You both should try to learn how to do that, and save the throat for moments when you can handle it and want to do it (if you can handle it).
You should practice getting that right (the right amount of pressure with your hand, and the right speed), and you will probaly find that does the trick. Tell him he should let you try that, and tell him to guide you as to how much pressure and what speed you should go at.
Your boyfriend needs to learn to come other ways than just deep-throat, or its going to be difficult for you both, he has a part to play too. The first part is for him to be willing to try more practical / realistic ways of having oral sex
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reader, bridget +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Hey there anon...
I dont think that you should be worrying about this if your partner is happy with the way in which youre relationship is going. You say he doesn't pressure you into doing things that you are unsure about things which is brilliant...
He seems a pretty cool guy so you should stop putting pressure on yourself and be happy that he loves you the way you are..
Dont feel bad about "gagging" as it is very normal alot of people do that and sometimes its just not everyones bowl of soup..
Hope Ive been of help to you..
Kind Regards
Jacqueline
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