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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi again everyone! as i just mentioned before that i just broked up with my bf over a year it did taked time to forget abut him and i did!! but again he is back to my heart!!!!!i dont know why and how come??!! i got feelings for him and i got feelings he has got feeling for me too!!! im not sure if he has got feelings for me and in the same time i wana find out!!he does talk to me only (hi/how r u?)and not even every day!!!!! i even mentioned it all this, this morning but still i wanted to write it down again for more help...i dont know if i follow my heart even if i do i dont know how to start conversation with him!!some people says follow your heart some says no!!!im stuck...i really need help..i cant prtend that everythings is ok maybe front of him i can prtend cause i dont want him to think i still like him cause i will feel embaresse if he find out and if he doesnt like me, but for myself i cant lie to my self i know i know people saying try to forget but i cant is like i just broked up with him today not last year!!!!help plzzz...many thank guys xxx
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reader, Psyche  +, writes (20 February 2007):
When we can't forget about someone it is usually because there is still some level of unresolved feelings and issues about the relationship. It is more often than not, that people are unable to go to the source to work on resolution. I think you are possibly feeling that you never had proper closure, somthing you could ask for now. But don't mistake needing closure for a desire to rekindle. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): heyaa x i dont really think its true love to be honest ! but if he did have the same feelings for you he would tell you and then you could start over again but the amount of time it took you to get over this lad would u want it all to happen again ?? if i was you i would try to forget about him and think about him as the past and move on with ya life but if you truly think your in love with him go for it and see what happens ! if you get hurt again though it would only b for the good of you loving him again ! but if you dont want that to happen dont get to deep in loving this lad again just pretend you dont know him! and if your friend keep telling you to forget may be its the best thing for you to do ! if they were real friends they would stick by you by any desicon u make xxx
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