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writes:When I was married my husband cheated on me and I was deployed for 6mo and he brought her to live in our home.. After I found out I divorced him and of course apart of me still loves him. Im tortured by images of him and her on my bed. I wonder why cant I have my happy family back. I dont want to be back with him -I despice him- yet If I take him back and remarry I will always wonder is he cheating on me again? Should I forgive so I can have my family back, so the kids can have dad at home again?will I ever be happy?
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Yuck, what a sticky situation. What pain it must have caused you, poor girl.
How is it going betreen you two now? Are you bieng friendly with each other? Perhaps you should go out to dinner with him to see how things go. Go through the dating process with him. Unless he has someone that he is seeing. Maybe things can be salvaged if both of you make an effort.
Think about getting him to go to a marraige therepist with you. Good luck hon!
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