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writes:I live along with my 3 boys my eldest has now moved out. My bf hhas not lived with me and at the way we are going I do not think are relationship is ever going to change. I want more and I am now ready to move on.I met a guy at him family business a year ago and it was instant attraction. He is like a copy of me in everyway - similiar interests, careers and children;s situation. He also is a single parent. His family love me and my youngest and are very caring and friendly.I have checked him out on facebook and found loads of picture sof him and his children on holiday. I only came across one pciture with him holding someone close.When am around him both of us feel nervous. i keep catching him staring at me in mirrors. Once he gave him a really big kiss.I would like to get to know him more but do not want to make the first move. I feel i may have found someone really special and may lose the opportunity. He works in his families hairdressers and is surrounded by women continously. Once I saw some girls coming on to him and he had to hide from them. He is really handsome but I can see more beneath him than his looks and I like he has worked that ut with me too.Any advice on how I can move this forward?
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 First thing you need to do is get rid of the extra baggage. If the other relationship isn't panning out, you owe it to both parties to end it so that both are able to continue their lives. I know that the current B/F is a safetynet, but I can assure you, you need to let him go if you want to move on.Now to the second relationship. What might be holding him back is your current B/F. Don't for one second think that you are the only one that is cleaver enough to search Facebook.Life is to short to sit back and hope it all turns out ok. If you want to move forward in this relationship, you need to grab the bull by its horns. I have taked to many old friends on Facebook that I fancied in H.S. and find it odd that the girls that I crushed on actually liked me. I was just too scared to make the first move.Make that first move.Good Luck!Jeff
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