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writes:I love this guy I met, I love him so much. I want to meet him but he lives in Spain and me the USA. he don't care about sex or anything he listens to me, he's the only one I really trust. I need help how can we meet? I'm 14. Reply to this Question
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reader, Shade'sGirl +, writes (7 December 2008):
I'm 17 and have been in a LTR for a year now. I live in the UK and my (now fiance) in the USA who is also 17.
Work with the realtionship more, keep talking and be open with each other. If it's meant to work it will last until you're older and you will meet him in person, and believe me it is wonderful.
The point is that you're very young (believe me i heard all this as well and wanted to whack anyone that said it)
Just last it out a few year until you're older, let him talk to your family. Both get webcams and mics (that how me and my fiance stay in touch) Really get to know each other and see what the future holds
Take care and good luck and most of all have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): I disagree with everyone else who wrote to you. Key word "you're 14!!!!!!" you have no idea what love is, trust me I thought I was in love at 14 too, but boy was I wrong. And not only that, you don't know who this guy is, you have to be careful who knows what he has in store for you, people die everyday from situations like this, some end up with diseases or pregnant after being raped and abused..notice I put diseases 1st.. They are real and they do kill people. You're life is far more valuable and much more important than some cyber crush. Stick to boys in your neighborhood that you can see and observe before making decisions if anything, take your time babe.
Mrs.c2b
Hope this helps
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reader, rachel2008  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 i can relate to youre situation. my advice for you would be to carry on talking to him, call him, see him on webcam first. you are only 14 and you need to take your time, although i know how hard this can be. i would advice you that you tell your parents that you are in love when you are ready first. as you are 14 this is not a suitable age to travel to spain.if your bf loves you then he should do the work and come to see you. you need to do this with the concent of your parents and if he decides he wants to come and visit you, arrange it with your mum and dad who can be there when he comes and accompany you. living in differnt countries doesnt mean anything as love will concor all, as i am married to a man from a differnt country, but remember your safety is more important than anything! let ur parents be apart in this and enjoy this time ur having now! dont rush things as you have all your life! if he loves you he will also wait and be patient.
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