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How can I make sex between us easier on him and more fun?

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Question - (4 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ammy314 writes:

okay, so me and my boyfriend had sex on leapyear for the first time. It was the first time for me and him together..and my first time in general. He said hed done it with other girls before but if u know my boyfriend u would never believe it..so im guessin he just doesnt want me to think he was a virgin idk. anyways, when we did it, i was on bottom and he was on top. It seemed like he was the only one gettin a real work out cause he was thrustin the whole time and everything and i just wish there was a way for me to make it easier on him. what movements can i do to help? and also sometimes im not sure if it feels good to him..like. idk. it hurt me really bad at first cause i was loosin it to him..but sometimes i wonder if it felt good to him, or if there was anythin i could do to make it better for him.

advice would really help..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

hey idk how old this question is but i came acrossed it and completely disliked the two bitchy answers you got.

so sex for him is going to feel great. tell him one time to do what feels good for him and that you want him to cum. man that should get him going. also ask him if there is any different positions he would like to try.ex- you on top, doggy ect...

good luck

have fun.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008):

I hope the next time you have sex is after the next leap year.....you are too young to be doing this and are putting yourself at great risk for cervical cancer (due to your underdeveloped body and your very young age), and other serious and not so serious diseases.

I would imagine your boyfriend is feeling guilty about what he is doing just a little that is why you can't tell if he is enjoying it, he doesn't love you in fact he probably will lose respect for you for doing this with him, that is the little secret teen boys don't tell you, they don't respect girls who give it up at this age, but they won't turn sex down and they are interested in using you for their own pleasure and er education.

I know you did not come here for a lecture, but I feel like you need the wake up call. Please talk to your mother about your sexual activity so she can help you make arrangements for birth control or what ever your family deems appropriate.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008):

Hun, you won't get any tips, on sex from me. If you want to be real dumb and risk a pregnancy, then so be it. Because telling you not to have sex due to life altering of the seriousness of this act, would be an exercise in futility, wouldn't it. You are an underage minor. I think it would be wise for the Aunts on this website to tread wisely and carefully here, too. (although some likely won't) Giving sexual advice to minors is irresponsible, not to mention what legal consequences could mean for this site, if your parents found out where you are getting all this worldly advice. The internet has a whack of info on sex advice, go and find it there.

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