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writes:out relationship is just three months old and she is scared because she thinks i dont love her and i would dump her when i finished my schooling. i have tryed to make her to understand that i wouldnt leave her, but she just made up her mind on the 1st of july to let go of me. And since then, i cant concentrate on my studies. i talked to her on the 26th of july and she told me to leave her alone. but i cant because everyday i think of her. i know i did say somethings to her that made her to think that i was playing on her. she went for her sister's wedding and i told her not to show my pictures to any of her family yet, because it isnt time for me to come see her family. and this is one of her reasons she have to leave me thinking that i am playing on her.i tryed to forget about her, but i cant do it. she refuses to pick my calls and refuses to sms me, and reply my sms. she made me fall in love with her and now she dumped me. pls can any one tell me how i can win back her feelings for me. i cant let her go off my life. i would be glad if anyone can give me a very good advise that can make her fall in love with me again.i love my girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): Dude, here is some good advice. Do one thing and do this one thing only. Write her a note and tell her that you agree that things ended the way they should have..and leave it at that. trust me you will get a response but be patient. If she thinks she cannot have you she will come running to you.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 she scared of getting hurt which is very understandable however you cant make someone love you.she obviously still has feelings for you which is why she isnt replying to your sms or anything as she is trying to get over you maybe you need to understand from her point of view that she has made up her mind aboout the situation id give her one last text to let her no that you love her and you wouldnt do anything to her hurt her and that you cant stop thinking about her and let go but yourl try for her sake but if she changes her mind to contact you and leave it at that if she loves you and your meant to be together you will be in time maybe she just needs the space to think but for now you should try and get over her i no its hard to say but its the best for both of you
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